this month a time span of over a week was designated as a time of reflection,
atonement and rededication in the Jewish calendar. Reflection is something I do
a lot of – I have for many years quite regularly in my daily or weekly goings
on. At that time every year I reflect on my year and perspectives at that
snapshot in time: my thoughts, what’s important at the time, my relation to
people in my life, my work – purpose, where I want it to go and how I
contribute in the larger scheme of things.
on September 4th there was a small article in the Wall Street Journal reporting on studies
indicating that reflecting on the positive at the end of each day significantly
reduces stress for workers, Well, that’s another persuasive reason for regular
reflection. Stress reduction – what a gift!
far as I can observe, reflection time on the part of people of all ages has
decreased and stress has increased. At least a loose connection would not be
surprising. Our lives have undoubtedly become more stressful, and the
popularity of yoga and meditation has not made a big dent in it overall. We are
besieged by: more work with less time to do it; so many choices; economic
challenges; the seeming need to be connected – always on; complex relationships
that don’t get adequate attention; rapid change; and my personal big stress
button second to health issues (other people and mine, if I have them) – which
is technology breakdowns and glitches. They all add up.
have little time to reflect, and the younger generations (to generalize) never
seemed to have developed the reflection habit or even a reflection “gene.” What
they are missing are the benefits of processing in their minds and bodies the
implications of what has occurred and, as much as is in their control, to
devise solutions and action plans.
on positive achievements, even small ones every day, leads to good feelings.
The reflection/stress study co-author Theresa Glomb of the University of
Minnesota Carlton School of Management added, “The real impact comes from
writing down why those things – the good things that happened - led to good
feelings.” That sounds like a positive accomplishment in itself – a stress-busting
habit we need to train high school and college students to adopt.
add one more piece of ammunition, when asked what career advice he would give
to a class of graduating students, Daniel Lubetsky, chief executive of Kind
Snacks, related this in an interview with Adam Bryant for his Corner Office New York Times column:
“…make sure that you talk to yourself, that you think hard about what is
important to you and gives you meaning. When I was 19 and walking between
classes, I didn’t have a phone, so my brain would take me in all different
directions… But nowadays, we’re on our iPhones all the time, and you don’t have
time to talk with yourself, to analyze… It’s very important for people to know
what gives them meaning. But it’s hard for people to figure out if you are not
connecting with yourself and taking the time to just be introspective and
do you build reflection into your daily life? Please share your tips.
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